I think perhaps the biggest heartbreak lesson for many is that you will not be marrying the person that you love(d) the most. At some point, you will settle for who is best for you and not who you really want, and you will make your peace with that.
Goodluck to those that get to marry the actual mutual loves of their lives. Emphasis on ‘mutual’. You may not fully appreciate what God has done for you.
These things aren’t mutually exclusive but for some people, they are. I think choosing who is best for you is not necessarily a bad decision. Infact, it can be the mature and correct one in the long term.

And if you can’t have what you want, you can learn to love what you have.
To skilfully navigate through these tough decisions and their consequences, see my pinned tweet.

Tbabz out✌️
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