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What to expect at the OB/GYN when you’re trans (a thread)
If you're feeling nervous, take a moment to relax beforehand and consider bringing a friend or family member with you. They could travel to the appointment with you, accompany you in the waiting room, observe the doctor’s behavior and advocate for you if needed.
Tell your doctor your pronouns and talk about what they can do to make you feel comfortable. They should respect this, and if they don’t, you might want to find another physician. Your health is important, and you deserve to be treated with respect and dignity.
If you’re anxious about being examined, ask the doctor to talk you through the procedure first. People with a cervix may need a Pap test. f you have a uterus and ovaries, your ob/gyn may want to check them with a pelvic exam. If you have a vagina, be sure to get checked for STDs.
Whether you have breasts or not, it’s important for the doctor to examine your chest. Breast cancer can affect people of any gender. Tell your doctor about any family history of breast cancer, and let them know if you have breast pain, lumps or any other changes that worry you.
If you menstruate, the doctor will probably ask you for the date of your last period. If you use Clue, you’ll have a handy record of this. Now’s a great time to your doctor about pain, regularity, heaviness or any concerns you may have.
There are also many benefits to discussing your sexual activity with your gynecologist. You could discuss STD screenings and vaccinations, birth control and safer sex, problems with sexual function or satisfaction and plans to adopt or conceive children.
Remember to be kind to yourself afterwards. Medical appointments like this can bring up feelings of gender dysphoria. If you are struggling or simply need someone to talk to, there are many places to turn. Check out this article for more info https://helloclue.com/articles/cycle-a-z/what-to-expect-at-obgyn-when-youre-trans
