so i had a realisation that not everything is about me (literally who knew) so maybe if i don’t hear from a mate it’s because of ADHD & lack of object permanence & they still like me
so i asked my gf if i should message my friend again because maybe they do actually like me but
so i asked my gf if i should message my friend again because maybe they do actually like me but
have just forgotten i existed or didn’t have the mental capacity to speak to me for a while but then my gf said they probably don’t wanna speak to me if they haven’t spoken to me for months and maybe i should just take the hint so now i’m right back to square 1 and idk
so it’s like do u reach out to people u haven’t spoken to in a while or not because u don’t wanna bother them and also don’t wanna be constantly reaching out to someone who never reaches out to u but also why loose a friend just bc u have different styles of communication
i know this is not a good thread but i cannot afford therapy