kageyama slander is literally that one post about loving and supporting traumatized characters until they show "bad" symptoms of said trauma (lashing out, isolating, etc.)
"he was mean" "he was 'violent'" just say you expect all traumatized characters to be 'uwu soft baby shy small bean' Lol
slandering him for being "mean" as if he didnt lose his grandfather - the most important person in the world to him, the one person who was always there for him, supported him no matter what, who single handedly made him continue his dreams of volleyball despite -
DESPITE his senpai (oikawa) hating him to the point of an almost physical altercation - which was then immediately followed by getting outcasted and ostracized by the rest his team.
literally NO one was there for him like his grandfather was. and then he lost him. who processed that grief with him i wonder? who comforted him? who supported him though his loss? sure as hell not his team who openly shunned him
and we havent even discussed the fact that he was a KID when this happened. like 13/14. an adolescent CHILD losing an important authority figure, his biggest support system, primary care giver from what he know, and then being isolated from his peer group on top of it all?
ZERO friends ZERO support and despite EVERYTHING in the world telling him to just quit - to give up volleyball for good - he continued playing. even getting rejected from shiratorizawa - the place where his grandfather graduated from - he kept going
i mean. dont you think that thats??.......dont you find beauty in that?? you all have worms for brains
i hate to be the one to break it to you but grief isnt pretty and theres a multitude of ways to cope with the trauma of losing loved ones. most of them not fitting in with the "trauma makes you a nice soft little pushover" stereotype
just say you hate complex characters and go