Nobody will agree with me bc they’ll get angry but i think venusians are horrible parents
Krs and another astrologer i watched said venus wants kids to keep up image and continue lineage or an ideal, a standard but that this planet is actually very cold for parenting and i agree completely from personal experience in my own family.
This is not a motherly or fatherly planet at all and more often than not venusians will be very mean spirited, judgmental, restrictive, controlling, and domineering over children.
Theyre the types who don’t like cooking for their kids and say stuff like “this is MY house you should be grateful” bleh. You have to remember that this is a very dry, selfish and possessive planet. It wants to hold in its warmth for itself not give it to others like mars or sun.
Claire said something about this too, how in relationships venusians withhold and restrict affection to control/domineer over the energy of a relationship as a way to perfect the relationship. Which in turn leads to them being controlling and manipulative in their relationships.
You can see how that obviously becomes horrible parenting in a parent-child relationship. You shouldnt withhold affection or really anything from your child as a way to “train” them to your standards, its weird as hell.
While mars gives immense affection in relationships to the point that they are taken advantage of. I’ve seen that mars and sun make the best parents in both genders. Mercury and venus are too cold and self absorbed, moon is too self victimizing, jupiter too egoistic,
Saturn too harsh and not wanting to help the child enough bc “they should figure it out on their own, life is a personal struggle and im not doing it for you” mentality. Idk about rahu and ketu. Meh. Narcissist parents, probably.