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I think it’s time to make a thread on red flags by cis people for trans people since I’m noticing we haven’t had this talk & we are not gonna give one damn about cis normative bullshit in 2021.
First, if a cis person only watches Blaire White and or Kalvin Garrah and refuses to listen to other trans people. This is a BIG red flag, do not ignore it, TRUST me. They only want cis approval and that mindset will literally tear yourself apart.
Second, if a person uses “gender critical, radfem, transgendered, transgenderism, transing,” these are TERF dogwhistles. Also anyone who doesn’t like the term cis or says cisphobia is a thing- but those are pretty clear. Trender used unironically is also a HUGE red flag.
Anyone who misgenders trans people they do not like. Even if it’s a mutually hated person
example: Jessica Yaniv
example: Jessica Yaniv
Anyone who says “you have to have dysphoria to be trans”
Anyone who asks you about any medical procedures “for their curiosity”
Anyone who says “the best of both worlds”
If they only @ you to show you/tell you about transphobic stories
“I’m a real woman” 
Reference to number 41
TIM/TIF? Nope, huge huge huge red flag
Anyone who follows @jk_rowling still
“Gender confusion” 
This is just a short list, any of my other trans friends please add if you like! Thank you & stay safe out there!
Also!!!! Anyone who thinks non-binary people owe androgyny & have to use they/them pronouns
“Are you AMAB or AFAB?”
Anyone who says “transhumanism”
