Girls are getting trapped in love jihaad. Ever Wondered why?
Is it only bcoz they r foolish or they aren't scared of parents?
Wrong!
Plz consider this :
1)
most places in UP & Bihar, since the day girl is born,parents are tensed for her marriage!
She is more of a liability+
To be passed on!
2)
Low Self Esteem : mostly either for her colour, or education, weight gender or simply bcoz she sees her mom suffering a compromised married life.
She feels, this guy, talking sweet nothings to her, actually loves her for what she is!
Not judging her!
He is lying. Of course. But her appreciation deprived mind doesn't see it that way!
3)
Most of the families in big cities are not bonded. They r together coz of Social or peer pressure. A Compromise. The immature mind of the young girl wants a life that has more meaning to it
Where 2 people aren't just living for the sake of living!
4)
U taught her all Gods are equal.
U taught that going to Temple isn't important!
U taught her that doing Pooja or following rituals make her uncool & conservative!
5)
U never had an open conversation with her. Abt her
6)
Bollywood!!
Media!!
Probably the biggest reason behind.
From creating false heroes like Jodha Akbar to romanticizing Niquab & Aadab!
Look at the Super Stars u created!
From Dilip Kumar to Shahrukh Khan!
The story of the Knight in Shining Armour!
Who will rescue her to his
Kingdom!
The stories that u told her always had a daring, romantic Man!
7)
U kept her away from the reality of the world. Most families give their Kids what they want, even before they can ask!
Bcoz parents have money not time. Or honesty.
Hence, she is cocooned from harsh
Practicalities of life. Thinking only love is enough to keep the life going.
Thinking love is only thing that matters.
Religion isn't important

So just condemning the girls and leaving them to their fate or making laws won't help.
Wake up
Be honest
#lovejihaad
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