I talked to a 22 year old self-described "incel" a couple of years ago. I asked good faith questions about why he felt the way he did about women. It was both enlightening and horrifying, but I noticed it all came down to one excuse.

1/6 https://twitter.com/MTheWriter93/status/1323374570984869888
"Women only want 'Chads'."

I asked if he ever asked out - and sorry, ladies, but you may see this as offensive - a girl that wasn't hot.

He side-stepped the question.

2/6
I told him about how I didn't lose my virginity until I was almost 19. I pointed out that I'm not a Chad, but I've had lots of girlfriends and got laid plenty.

He didn't budge.

3/6
He hated women. His excuse came down to "nobody will fuck me."

I was like, look, did you ever stopped to think that women won't fuck you because of your personality?

"Women only want Chads."

4/6
So basically they're pissed that they can't get a "hot" woman, so they take it out on all women. They listen to "men" that have them convinced that no woman will want them because "women only want Chads."

5/6
They blame women for their own shortcomings. Like, seriously. These are a self-loathing bunch.

This kind of misogyny is a self-perpetuating virus.

You can't reason with a virus. But keep standing against it. Fuck those guys.

6/6
I need to say, it was a genuine attempt to reach a young man and bring him out of his toxic community. I *wanted* to feel sorry for him, but i just couldn't. He didn't want to be saved, and that's on him.
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