lrts the amount of people who ask before the scene is even started for me to give aftercare like "also I need aftercare" is deplorable like? You don't need to ask?? It *SHOULD* be mandatory??

Friends and followers if I may break kayfaybe for a moment,

As much as noncon and abuse kink Does It for me, in reality consent and care is still absolutely mandatory the difference between a rape scene and a RAPE is not hard to figure out: it's consent.

Dommes, care for your cuties

Submissives, if they ignore your safewords even once, even teasingly, that's not okay. That is abuse. That is a violation of your trust in them. If they do not *automatically* give you after care, it is the same thing.

Stay away from them. You deserve better

Even if its rough. EVEN if it's a rape scene. Your consent matters and if you aren't consensual you do not need to justify it.