ADHDers have consequence blindness/ apathy.

We can struggle understanding the consequences of our action/ being motivated through it.

As such, we benefit from external accountability.

I don't want people to repeatedly cut me slack 'cause he has ADHD'.

How else will I learn?

Yes, it wasn't easy at the start cause of the RSD.

Even genuine constructive criticism was hard.

But shit, everything is difficult at the start and can get easier with practice.

I go out of my way to ask people to tell me if I say or do things hurtful things accidentally.

The guilt sucks but isn't it much better to feel bad now and try and improve rather than not realize it and have them hurt over and over?