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ive accepted that i kinda v much want to be big hot (maybe strong even??) gal who gives warm hugs and intimidates in a good way
ive always strived for cuteness and like. taking up as little space as possible as like, these are things that will make valid and acceptable as a girl, but now that im rly growing into it and exploring the space, i think this is a better expression of who i really am!!
ive definitely been through some toxic things to desperately ensure my validity as a woman, and i think this is another thing that kind of falls under that umbrella
none of this is to say i dislike cute things!!! i absolutely adore cute things, but relying on them to find my validity as a woman has held me back some and now im finding it in other places, like in being a big strong gal :)
im also definitely inspired and encouraged by a lot of people and characters!! idk sorry to ramble just yea, this is a shift in perspective that's been happening for me for a while
