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Relationship guide (from someone who has been in a happy, stable relationship for 4 years). A thread
1-Honey moon phase
This is one of the most fun phases of a relationship. You are gonna see your partner as the best person ever and he/she can never do you wrong and its one of the best feelings ever. Just enjoy this phase as much as you can and try to get to know him/her better
This is one of the most fun phases of a relationship. You are gonna see your partner as the best person ever and he/she can never do you wrong and its one of the best feelings ever. Just enjoy this phase as much as you can and try to get to know him/her better
This phase lasts about 3-5 months.
Tips: -Get him/her little gifts every now and then
-Ask a lot of questions, really get to know each other
-Spend a lot of time together
-Please dont leave your friends behind cause they are gonna be very helpful later
-Constant reassurance
Tips: -Get him/her little gifts every now and then
-Ask a lot of questions, really get to know each other
-Spend a lot of time together
-Please dont leave your friends behind cause they are gonna be very helpful later
-Constant reassurance
2-Storm phase/first fights
The honey moon phase wears out. You start fighting a lot, maybe there is some jealousy and distrust. You really start seeing their bad side, the worst of that person and you realize that that person you thought was perfect isnt But this is a good thing
The honey moon phase wears out. You start fighting a lot, maybe there is some jealousy and distrust. You really start seeing their bad side, the worst of that person and you realize that that person you thought was perfect isnt But this is a good thing
Cause now you know whats the dark side of that person and with some time, dedication, commitment and love you can learn how to deal with it and love it. Compare their dark side to their good side and if the dark side is much more dark than their bright side is bright. Cut it
This is where most relationships end because of a lack of maturity from one or both of you or maybe cause of something unforgivable... anyways if you decide to keep things going you need to understand that you are never going back to the honey moon phase. Maybe there are gonna-
-be some moments that remind you of the honey moon phase but its just never gonna be the same. Accept that. Live through it. The good thing is that it can only get better from there
The duration of this phase depends on you and your partner.
Tips: -Listen to what your partner says during fights and try to get in his/her shoes please
-Put your godamn pride aside y'all are not children
-Forgive a lot
-Try your best to not go to sleep angry or sad
Tips: -Listen to what your partner says during fights and try to get in his/her shoes please
-Put your godamn pride aside y'all are not children
-Forgive a lot
-Try your best to not go to sleep angry or sad
-Try to solve things face to face (this most of the time ends in y'all making out violently 
)
-Your friends are always gonna be there for you no matter how many times you didnt go out with them
-Dont do stupid shit out of spite, remember y'all are still together
)-Your friends are always gonna be there for you no matter how many times you didnt go out with them
-Dont do stupid shit out of spite, remember y'all are still together
3- The bliss/the calm
Now that the other phase is gone it would now only ger so much better for you two, in this phase you will feel like you know your partner in and out and you are gonna be so happy together, people are gonna envy what you have together
Now that the other phase is gone it would now only ger so much better for you two, in this phase you will feel like you know your partner in and out and you are gonna be so happy together, people are gonna envy what you have together
Tips: -Go out together
-Talk a lot about the future and get excited for it
-Keep the spark strong
-Constant reassurance
-Remember your past together
-Try to not fall into habit
-Talk a lot about the future and get excited for it
-Keep the spark strong
-Constant reassurance
-Remember your past together
-Try to not fall into habit
3- The fall into habit (its gonna happen)
This is the phase were things are actually going a little TOO well and nothing exciting really happens. You go to his/her house, you do the same thing over and over and over and you start to question everything
This is the phase were things are actually going a little TOO well and nothing exciting really happens. You go to his/her house, you do the same thing over and over and over and you start to question everything
But dont worry this happens to every couple eventually.
Tips:-Break habit, go to somewhere new
-Try new things
-Surprise her/him
-Be spontaneous
-Remember your past together again
-Tell each other why you fell in love with each other
-DO SOMETHING
-Try new things
-Surprise her/him
-Be spontaneous
-Remember your past together again
-Tell each other why you fell in love with each other
-DO SOMETHING
4- The end (maybe, maybe not)
Sometimes relationships just end cause of other reasons other than fights or cheating. Maybe y'all are taking different paths in life, maybe you have a different plan for yourself or your partner or maybe just unfortunate circumstances
Sometimes relationships just end cause of other reasons other than fights or cheating. Maybe y'all are taking different paths in life, maybe you have a different plan for yourself or your partner or maybe just unfortunate circumstances
And you just neee to accept the end, wish them a happy life, don't hold grudges even if they hurt you, holding grudges hurts way more than forgiving. That person is going to remember you forever and its up to you if when he/she remembers you she is gonna smile or be disgusted
Keep that in mind at all times
Now some extra tips (just as important, i just didnt know where to put them)
-BE NICE TO HIS/HER FAMILLY (i cant even tell you how important this is)
-Go to the gym, make yourself look desireable
-Smell good at all times
-Dress good
-Be likeable
-BE NICE TO HIS/HER FAMILLY (i cant even tell you how important this is)
-Go to the gym, make yourself look desireable
-Smell good at all times
-Dress good
-Be likeable
End of thread
