This is my son Gavin. He has chosen to enlist in the @USArmy and will ship out for basic training tomorrow morning. I couldn’t be more proud, and as emotional as this would be for any parent, it’s especially difficult for me. Let me tell you why... (THREAD)
When he was 3 years old, his mom disappeared into the world of crystal meth addiction. We would go weeks/months without seeing her, then come home & she’d be asleep on the porch. This went on for some time before I decided it was time to leave. I just didn’t wanna give up on her.
This feels like yesterday. This was the last gift he received from her. (He still has it) 2010 was the last time she came around. 2013 the last time she called. It’s been just the two of us for so many years & he’s never been away from me for more than a week since he was born.
This is not meant to be a sad story. As far as I know, she’s been sober for the last 4 yrs. He & I have lived full lives & have seen & done so many things together. Although our lives were forever changed back then, it didn’t dull my or his spirit and resolve to be good people.
He now begins his own journey into manhood, post graduation. I only pray I’ve done my part in showing him how to be kind. How to love others. How to be respectful. To look at all options and make thoughtful decisions. Good luck son. Dad loves you, and I’ll always be here for you.