I’ve made the decision to stop romanticizing permanent/ extended chastity without a person with a deep bond I share present in my life.
When you look at who has been successful with extended chastity it’s people who share a deep connection with someone and who are able to
be reminded what’s happening and why it’s happening.
be reminded what’s happening and why it’s happening.
I just don’t think these things can be done while self locked so I’m going to stop beating myself up over it. I’ve tried all year to break my 2 month record. But like.... why? When I was locked for 2 months it had severe phycological consequences and my professional life suffered
I think we might be so obsessed with chastity bc we all crave that connection that unlocks the next level of chastity and by continuing the loop of failing without that bond could be damaging, maybe? Idk just thinking out loud here. I don’t feel like we view chastity healthily