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The older I get and the more I date, I realize that you have to decide about 3-4 things that are truly important to you. Take everything else case by case. Throw away your list. Stop thinking you are going to get every single petty thing you want. The shit ainât realistic.
Figure out your dealbreakers, figure out your must haves. Should only have a few for both and then go from there. We do too much when we have a fantasy in our head and people canât live up to it.
Chile in a perfect world I would have my 6â4, dark skin rich ass king who pays for everything. ROMANTIC. He takes care of the kids and cooks and cleans. Heâs emotionally intelligent af and supportive. But this is real life and not a fucking fairytale 
Some of yâall got a list a mile fucking long for no damn reason. NARROW THAT SHIT DOWN. Most of that stuff is shallow and/or you can simply do without.
I honestly donât feel like looks should be including in anything when it comes to finding a mate. Yes, you should be attracted to them but when youâre making your list of 3-4 important must haves, a physical quality shouldnât be one.
Also...ASK THE PERSON YOUâRE DATING THEIR DEALBREAKERS. Ask whatâs important. Cause that can influence your decision on dating them.
I didnât say settle 
Just saying some of yâall need to hone in on whatâs important.
Just saying some of yâall need to hone in on whatâs important.
