Y’all... guess what my therapist lead me to realize. Wanting to fix others is not empathic. It’s actually narcissistic and quite frankly very rude.
You’re saying “I’m not giving you enough credit and I think you can’t do this on your own. I am your savior, you are feeble and I am stronger than you, so let me help”.
Let me clarify. Fixing others and thinking only you can do it and stepping in when they didn’t even ask is narcissistic. We all have narcissistic tendencies. You’re not a bad person. Wanting to help is different. It all boils down to intention. Muting
