These rhetorical templates basically exist to convert ppl with different kinds of trauma into neoliberal shock troops trying to 'abolish' any human relationship in which trauma is possible, which is all of them https://twitter.com/speakingofdorks/status/1302656430009454592

Ppl have so thoroughly internalised the idea of themselves as consumer demographics that ppl with bad or difficult family situations are literally offended by the idea that 'family is important', as if this is exclusionary

Ppl don't know how to grieve anymore, don't know how to conceptualise the weight of an authentic tragic experience within the limited vocabulary made available to them in the culure, so you get these ugly, petty sentiments, sorrow caught in snark