are they a sagittarius with anxiety or did they just have taurus and virgo parents that opened their eyes to the dangers of the world too early in a controlling attempt to protect them

honestly just turning this into a thread because i've been noticing too many sign/ parent sign patterns and i've had it

are they a capricorn with confidence issues or did they just have air sign parents that never gave them proper structure because they didn't know how

are they a cenile taurus with trust issues or did they just have an aries parent that would punish them by overstepping their boundaries and intentionally making them uncomfortable

are they a leo with an inflated and sensitive ego, or did they just have another leo or sagittarius parent that would treat them like adults and outshine them until they learned how to be better than them, using their phobia of failure against them

are they a gemini that's afraid to speak up, or did they just have aquarius and virgo parents that viewed their own beliefs as reality and never allowed the gemini to experience a reality that wasn't built for them

are they a lazy materialistic libra or did they have taurus and scorpio parents that had a kid with the intention of living through them and buying their happiness while never really caring what actually makes them happy

are they a scorpio that feels like they live on a different plane of reality or did they just have pisces and gemini parents that never showed them that consistency isn't optional when you're trying to build a life with someone

are they a cancer with anger issues or did they have pisces and capricorn parents that would validate their feelings and their role in hurting them, but refused to change and continued to break their trust repeatedly until they learned how to fight back

are they an inconsistent aries or did they just have aries and taurus parents that would use them as a pawn in arguments about "keeping them safe" while expressing none of that concern or willingness to protect them when they were alone

are they a controlling and explosive aquarius or did they have cancer and leo parents that only showed them love conditionally while constantly reminding them of their failures as a way to inspire them to do better, repeating that behavior to their kids because it's all they know

are they a victim-playing overemotional pisces, or did they just have cancer and sagittarius parents that didn't hide serious emotions or fights from them and spoke over them, making them feel powerless and unable to change what they can already see coming

are they a high-maintenance and hypocritical virgo, or did they have libra and aquarius parents that never gave them the solid push they needed to make it in life, so they push the ones they love in that same way because that's how they believe real love is shown