The more you increase your vibration, the easier attracting and keeping women is.

Some guys aren't going to like the woo woo "vagueness" of this observation - yet everyone who's actually put in reps understands women are fundamentally drawn towards a guy's vibe.

Vibe = Vibration

And you change your vibration through deep work.

Every bit of trauma you have lowers your field. It drags you into patterns of self-pity, anger, lust, guilt, shame...

You need to deal with these pockets if you are going to become a magnet for women, particularly women who are emotionally healthy and aren't in it to drain you.

Understand: experiencing these emotions isn't a bad thing. This is part of the human experience.

The issue is being TRAPPED in these states.

Let them pass through you.

Guys who are stuck in resentment, fear, etc. are closed off & unable to bring out positive feelings in women.

Women are looking for guys who BRING ENERGY.

Study the tactics and best practices, but unless you understand this core tenet... every approach you make will yield frustrating results.

Dead vibe = no girls.

You can't hack this.

Guys get dependent on alcohol when they go out because it temporarily increases their energetic state (by letting out reserves).

But this works against you if you drink too much, and isn't a long-term solution.

Moreover, it doesn't change how YOU feel.

The only way to do that is self-healing. The inner work.

Reconciling trauma and dealing with baggage.

Self-improvement is great, but until you get to these core limiting beliefs, you are dancing around the surface.

Good habits come easily when you are in alignment.

And now is the best time to deal with these issues and get into it. If you had excuses before, under the global lockdown... you don't now.

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