unpopular opinion but i kinda hate the term theybies. im tired of enbies being infantilized and treated like they only deserve respect if they’re cutesy and androgynous. non binary people do not have to fit into your ideas of gender and expression to be valid. we are ALL valid
of course enbies can be cute. of course they can be androgynous. but they can also be masc. they can also be fem. they can also be completely outside of the gender ideals that humans have formed. neopronouns are valid. nounself pronouns are valid. fuck anyone who tries to imply
that non-binary folk are doing something wrong just by existing as themself. normalize minding your own fucking business and blaming cishets for their discrimination and bigotry instead of the communities you claim to support. fuck your assimilation bullshit. we are here, we are
real, and you’re never going to change that
a very good thread on a similar topic https://twitter.com/skylrxo/status/1296414500615335936?s=21