the sex positivity movement sucks ass. i wish i’d never heard of it (or at least heard of it at an older age). you don’t have to choose btwn total sexual repression and doing shit that makes you feel bad in the name of phony empowerment

idk who needs to hear this but it’s okay for sex to be a big deal. it’s vulnerable and intimate and you may not be emotionally prepared for it and that’s okay. we need to find a way to discuss sex that doesn’t involve shame but also encourages ppl to be safe and healthy

i thought it was ok and normal for me to “explore my kinks” at 13. i thought i was ready for sex at 15. honestly i think the shit i’ve been through is a result of being groomed by grown men online since i was old enough to use a computer

but yeah it was totally empowering for me to seek all that shit out as a literal child and not at all traumatizing because it was *my choice*! /s