I completely understand the confusion over appreciation/appropriation.

But underlying this discussion is the theme of power imbalance & Indians just asking to be understood for their struggle.

So you see how it is a bit dickish that you are making jokes to dismiss it?

You get to joke about it because you don't have to spend another second thought defending your culture, you can still remain in your muhibah ideals that Indians have it great in Msia.

We had a genuine moment to discuss about the nuances of Malaysian culture, but sure let's joke

Also, I see right through how rich Malay men on this app constantly use 'pakcik/makcik at kampung don't care about this' when convenient to minimise discussions & call us elitist

Bro, you work at a GLC, you drive an Audi and you'll always have more rights than me, congrats