I’m sure it’s been said many time, many ways but, mini thread on penises & sex:
- sex does not have to be centered around the penis. ever. it can be but it’s not a prerequisite for an enjoyable time

-your penis doesn’t have to large or a certain shape for women to enjoy it. some women like big dicks, some don’t, find the ones that match your preferences.

- not ejaculating or not maintaining your erection is A-OK with any respectful partner. if they’re not okay, reevaluate that connection.

- consent from ANY. ONE. CAN BE RESCINDED AT ANY TIME. including: you felt like a blowjob a second ago but now you’re not in the mood. the only proper responses to that are variations of: “okay, let’s move on” and/or “let me know if something is up”

Your body is going to do as it wants. Demanding the impossible from it is a waste of energy. Simply find sexual partners who both respect you and enjoy what you’re capable of.

Penis is not the end all, be all of pleasure.

- also penises/penis havers enjoy foreplay too. stop mapping out your sexual experiences with a “main event: penetrative sex!” there are so many fun, erotic, teasing things that are left behind by a limited sexual view

- last last thing bc I hate when people say “you can do this!” and give no explanation: non extensive list
• temperature play
• sensual massage
• exploring your bodies erotic zones with tongues, teeth, etc
• cuddling/affection
• T O Y S
• dry humping

• dirty talk/flirting
• nipple
• good ol making out and groping

~things I haven’t tried but want to~
• tantra!

(yeah I meant to say erogenous zones, let’s move on together)