If religious people acted like TRAs saying 'oh my God' would be a hate crime, a sensitivity reader would screen science textbooks lest any heresy hurt our feelings, I'd write to your employer if you said you didn't believe in Christ's resurrection.
We'd have the right to convert your child without asking your permission. Refusing to call a priest 'father' would be a hate crime, even if the priest had insulted you earlier. Refusing to participate in a ritual which made you uncomfortable would also be an act of hate. 2/3
Tolerance isn't assimilation. It's about respecting each other's boundaries and peacefully coexisting.