
Opposite attract - INTENSE impulsive judgement & attraction reveal voids needing filling
Intense Impulsive Judgement & Attraction stem from the same root
The other person displays a quality they're are void in
You may have heard:
"if someone is always commenting hate on everything you do they're not a hater they're a fan they just don't know it"
The man strongly judges the influencer
but the influencer is SYMBOLIC of what he is lacking...
"if someone is always commenting hate on everything you do they're not a hater they're a fan they just don't know it"
The man strongly judges the influencer
but the influencer is SYMBOLIC of what he is lacking...
What he is lacking that the influencer is symbolic of:
> Putting himself out there & expressing instead of repressing
> Asking for the sale (feeling worthy of asking & receiving)
> Feeling worthy of taking action & making content
> Receiving praise & approval (which he lacks)
> Putting himself out there & expressing instead of repressing
> Asking for the sale (feeling worthy of asking & receiving)
> Feeling worthy of taking action & making content
> Receiving praise & approval (which he lacks)
Notice this is very subtle & nuanced
We are articulating the subconscious & the ego
Essentially, right now we are putting emotional energy into words as best we can
When he judges he does not consciously know this.
He feels something and the impulse is to 'point the finger'
We are articulating the subconscious & the ego
Essentially, right now we are putting emotional energy into words as best we can
When he judges he does not consciously know this.
He feels something and the impulse is to 'point the finger'

Because the man in the car triggered the emotion they direct their finger pointing at the man
But the man and his sports car are SYMBOLIC

The ego then fabricates artificial arguments
To rationalize why they feel this way in response to the man in the nice sports car
"He's thinks he so cool, small dick for sure"
"He needs all that money just to feel happy, I'm glad i'm not insecure and a show off like that"
To rationalize why they feel this way in response to the man in the nice sports car
"He's thinks he so cool, small dick for sure"
"He needs all that money just to feel happy, I'm glad i'm not insecure and a show off like that"



Appearances are SYMBOLIC
What does it represent?
Decode that to understand the root cause & the void behind behavioral responses to triggers
This is to articulate subconscious beliefs, bringing them into awareness
Making sense of what is experienced but not seen
What does it represent?
Decode that to understand the root cause & the void behind behavioral responses to triggers
This is to articulate subconscious beliefs, bringing them into awareness
Making sense of what is experienced but not seen
It is also in forgiving others you are able to forgive yourself
Because the positive quality they possess is a reminder of that same quality not in possession
Truly 'let go' & forgive them and you too will reap the benefits of forgiveness
"He who angers you controls you"
Because the positive quality they possess is a reminder of that same quality not in possession
Truly 'let go' & forgive them and you too will reap the benefits of forgiveness
"He who angers you controls you"
So that sheds light on judgement & resentment
But what about attraction?
Again keep in mind these 3 keywords:
Impulsive, Irrational, Intense
Scientifically the more we understand something the more we appreciate it. This reveals...
But what about attraction?
Again keep in mind these 3 keywords:
Impulsive, Irrational, Intense
Scientifically the more we understand something the more we appreciate it. This reveals...
That true love is NOT a strong high stimulation intense emotion
It gradually grows
Strong intense attraction with hardly any understanding of who the other person is reveals that person possesses a void within ourself
That badly wishes to be filled
It gradually grows
Strong intense attraction with hardly any understanding of who the other person is reveals that person possesses a void within ourself
That badly wishes to be filled
Just like being triggered, the person is SYMBOLIC
In lust it is not them you truly are attracted to
It's the qualities they possess that you lack
Just like being triggered that person triggers a feeling 'point 1 finger' "I want them" you may think
In lust it is not them you truly are attracted to
It's the qualities they possess that you lack
Just like being triggered that person triggers a feeling 'point 1 finger' "I want them" you may think
But 3 fingers are pointing back revealing "I want elements of them that are void within me"
These create extremely unhealthy co-dependent relationships
Where they "complete" each other instead of a healthy relationship in which they "compliment" each other
These create extremely unhealthy co-dependent relationships
Where they "complete" each other instead of a healthy relationship in which they "compliment" each other
I've kept this thread fairly general to relate to as many people as possible
But even things that you don't think have deeper meaning often do
Niche sexual fetish's are often also SYMBOLIC
The way we do things are symbolic of our beliefs
Reality is a metaphor
But even things that you don't think have deeper meaning often do
Niche sexual fetish's are often also SYMBOLIC
The way we do things are symbolic of our beliefs
Reality is a metaphor
Take some time to reverse engineer what you find yourself constantly judging or things & people you feel strong gravitational pull towards
Remember these: Intense, Impulsive, Irrational
Done properly you'll have successfully taken the subconscious roots and articulated them
Remember these: Intense, Impulsive, Irrational
Done properly you'll have successfully taken the subconscious roots and articulated them
THEN when you truly understand the problem you're able to solve it
Example:
Money problems are rarely 'money' problems
The absence of money is SYMBOLIC of behaviors and decisions made
The absence of good or the presence of bad is SYMBOLIC of our beliefs, desires, habits
Example:
Money problems are rarely 'money' problems
The absence of money is SYMBOLIC of behaviors and decisions made
The absence of good or the presence of bad is SYMBOLIC of our beliefs, desires, habits
The past is to REVISIT, to understand roots that are effecting present behaviors/decisions/beliefs
The past is not to be replayed, relived, resided within
Revisit - extract the data you need, connect the dots, and resolve the problem
Thank you for reading
Cheers,
- Yous
The past is not to be replayed, relived, resided within
Revisit - extract the data you need, connect the dots, and resolve the problem
Thank you for reading
Cheers,
- Yous