In life, don’t mistake:

1. Job for Career

2. Career for Identity

3. Net-worth for Self-worth

4. Rewards for Purpose

5. Purpose for Meaning

6. Opinion for Truth

7. Flattery for Friendship

8. Proximity for Presence

9. Intelligence for Wisdom

10. Your Mind for Your Self
How to use this list:

• Spend 30 seconds with each point. More, if you wish.

• Inspect it, map it to your life experience & current situation.

• Take what resonates. Ignore what doesn’t, for now.

• Revisit regularly if you wish.
Adding some more👇🏾
don't mistake:

11. Looks for Fitness

12. Fitness for Health

13. Health for Well-being

14. Well-being for Peace

15. Thrill for Fulfillment
don't mistake:

16. Introversion for Timidity

17. Bravado for Charisma

18. Charisma for Character

19. Extroversion for Confidence

20. Confidence for Competence
don't mistake:

21. Success for Ability

22. Income for Freedom

23. Ownership for Enjoyment

24. Lifestyle for Standards

25. Title for Flow

26. Power for Optionality

27. Money for Satisfaction

28. Friendship for Status

29. Achievement for Virtue

30. Disparity for Hierarchy
don't mistake:

31. Authority for Accuracy

32. Complexity for Depth

33. Rules for Ethics

34. Fear for Respect

35. Respect for Approval

36. Approval for Motivation

37. Narcissism for Self-love

38. Passivity for Forgiving

39. Forgiving for Weakness

40. Ego for Self-esteem
If you liked this thread, you might like the threads👇🏾
Much of how I think & operate is rooted in the message in this thread: https://twitter.com/shreyas/status/1254622533023760384
Some observations about authentic success, parenthood, learning, cognitive biases, optimizing for people... https://twitter.com/shreyas/status/1283632558891126784
Books & people that have helped me learn & understand the nature of things: https://twitter.com/shreyas/status/1254781998922518532
Keys to a fulfilling life and career: https://twitter.com/shreyas/status/1274120555826827264
A 3-tweet thread about my success heuristic: https://twitter.com/shreyas/status/1259278183410487296
A thread on rigorously choosing between Title, Money, Scope to avoid future regret. Scope here is a euphemism for Power. Also includes some considerations for prioritizing Money over the other two: https://twitter.com/shreyas/status/1268372416427786240
A useful thinking tool for making better personal decisions for the long term: https://twitter.com/shreyas/status/1265673391052165123
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