In life, don’t mistake:
1. Job for Career
2. Career for Identity
3. Net-worth for Self-worth
4. Rewards for Purpose
5. Purpose for Meaning
6. Opinion for Truth
7. Flattery for Friendship
8. Proximity for Presence
9. Intelligence for Wisdom
10. Your Mind for Your Self
1. Job for Career
2. Career for Identity
3. Net-worth for Self-worth
4. Rewards for Purpose
5. Purpose for Meaning
6. Opinion for Truth
7. Flattery for Friendship
8. Proximity for Presence
9. Intelligence for Wisdom
10. Your Mind for Your Self
How to use this list:
• Spend 30 seconds with each point. More, if you wish.
• Inspect it, map it to your life experience & current situation.
• Take what resonates. Ignore what doesn’t, for now.
• Revisit regularly if you wish.
• Spend 30 seconds with each point. More, if you wish.
• Inspect it, map it to your life experience & current situation.
• Take what resonates. Ignore what doesn’t, for now.
• Revisit regularly if you wish.
Adding some more

don't mistake:
11. Looks for Fitness
12. Fitness for Health
13. Health for Well-being
14. Well-being for Peace
15. Thrill for Fulfillment
11. Looks for Fitness
12. Fitness for Health
13. Health for Well-being
14. Well-being for Peace
15. Thrill for Fulfillment
don't mistake:
16. Introversion for Timidity
17. Bravado for Charisma
18. Charisma for Character
19. Extroversion for Confidence
20. Confidence for Competence
16. Introversion for Timidity
17. Bravado for Charisma
18. Charisma for Character
19. Extroversion for Confidence
20. Confidence for Competence
don't mistake:
21. Success for Ability
22. Income for Freedom
23. Ownership for Enjoyment
24. Lifestyle for Standards
25. Title for Flow
26. Power for Optionality
27. Money for Satisfaction
28. Friendship for Status
29. Achievement for Virtue
30. Disparity for Hierarchy
21. Success for Ability
22. Income for Freedom
23. Ownership for Enjoyment
24. Lifestyle for Standards
25. Title for Flow
26. Power for Optionality
27. Money for Satisfaction
28. Friendship for Status
29. Achievement for Virtue
30. Disparity for Hierarchy
don't mistake:
31. Authority for Accuracy
32. Complexity for Depth
33. Rules for Ethics
34. Fear for Respect
35. Respect for Approval
36. Approval for Motivation
37. Narcissism for Self-love
38. Passivity for Forgiving
39. Forgiving for Weakness
40. Ego for Self-esteem
31. Authority for Accuracy
32. Complexity for Depth
33. Rules for Ethics
34. Fear for Respect
35. Respect for Approval
36. Approval for Motivation
37. Narcissism for Self-love
38. Passivity for Forgiving
39. Forgiving for Weakness
40. Ego for Self-esteem
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Much of how I think & operate is rooted in the message in this thread: https://twitter.com/shreyas/status/1254622533023760384
Some observations about authentic success, parenthood, learning, cognitive biases, optimizing for people... https://twitter.com/shreyas/status/1283632558891126784
Books & people that have helped me learn & understand the nature of things: https://twitter.com/shreyas/status/1254781998922518532
Keys to a fulfilling life and career: https://twitter.com/shreyas/status/1274120555826827264
A 3-tweet thread about my success heuristic: https://twitter.com/shreyas/status/1259278183410487296
A thread on rigorously choosing between Title, Money, Scope to avoid future regret. Scope here is a euphemism for Power. Also includes some considerations for prioritizing Money over the other two: https://twitter.com/shreyas/status/1268372416427786240
A useful thinking tool for making better personal decisions for the long term: https://twitter.com/shreyas/status/1265673391052165123
That's all for today.
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