My only template for marriage is Christ and the Church.

Everything else is advice and thoughts which should be taken into consideration and reflected upon, especially if it's wise, but should not necessarily be taken as gospel truth.

"This is what I think about oral sex in marriage."
"This is what I think about joint accounts in marriage."
"This is what I think about _____"

I've heard people give advice over things and then change their stance years later. Many times.

Only the Scriptures are unshakeable.

I'm pretty sure this is the first time I've tweeted thoughts about relationship or marriage in years (I let the married folk with experience do that).

It won't be a habit. Back to tweeting on brand.