Read on Twitter
My main issue w/ Cancer problems is not necessarily their neediness and their moodiness and their constant defensiveness... its the passive aggressive approach that they respond to these things with
Theyll have an issue and be upset or hurt or feel some type of way and will just sulk about it to themselves and never communicate what their issue is, and then be mad that u didnt apologize or fix your behavior based on their issue... that u didnt even know they had
They expect people to be mind readers and “just know” that something is wrong... and then get even more in their feelinngs that you didnt just know even tho they never expressed their issue or hurt feelings
So then they turn whatever issue they had into an even bigger one.. and they can really draw shit out to the max when they coulda just expressed what they felt and resolve the issue
I think its bc Cancer placements themselves are so intuitive of other peoples feelings..they know what other ppl are feeling (esp. the ppl they love) even more than they know what theyre feeling themselves - so they expect that everyone else can do this too -BUT THEY CANT Cancer!
So for the love of God just say what u have to say and communicate your needs. It will have a higher success rate of getting your needs met than throwing a pity party
I also feel like Cancer women are a lot more prone to the pity party and in turn getting more emotional - and Cancer men are more prone to turning it into turning cold & shutting down completely. Whereas the women will keep trying. I prob worded this poorly idk
Cancer placements can really really benefit from learning the art of partial detachment to sit back and view whatever issue objectively and from a larger perspective outside of their emotional spincter 
