So, there's this thing I learned (clumsily) early on, but it always gets me:

As you advance in your training and career, other people view you differently, even if you don't feel you've changed or know enough fit in that new category. That matters. 1/n
You're a grad student now! Yay!

But part of your brain knows you were just recently *not* a grad student, & what if "they" realize you don't belong here?

Instead: This is further than most ppl go in their edu, K-12 & undergrads look up to you, your mentors see your potential.
You got your MS/PhD! Whoa!

But part of your brain reminds you how hard you had to work through your dissertation, and can you really do the next big thing?

Instead: You did the thing, whether it came easily or not, and you will be able to do the next thing.
You're a faculty member now. Wow.

But part of your brain whispers how many other great candidates there were, and are you really even qualified for this job?

Instead: You are in the position of authority now. Your support (or not) will directly change other ppls trajectories.
Well, I've forgotten to add the numbers above (5/n now, if you're counting).

tl;dr:

How you view yourself is important. You should also keep in mind how others perceive you and your status.
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