Thread for all you men in relationships/seeing someone regularly

Us men are all results based. We see a problem, we want a solution

We have sex, we want orgasms

Girls are not like that at all & you can improve your relationship x10 if you learn and implement this
For the average man sex is a physical act that lasts a few minutes until they orgasm (let’s not kid ourselves, most men aren’t half hour+ stallions)

For the average woman, sex is an emotional act that could easily last for days with many orgasms inbetween

Why is this?
Because for men, sex is something they do with their penis

For women, sex is something that happens inside their minds

And it can start way before any penis comes near them, and can last way beyond any penis is inside them

So here is some actionable dating advice:
First of all, start seducing her via words

If you’re seeing her in the evening, start the sex in the morning

Start talking dirty to her via text & maybe give her a call during the day

“But won’t that make me needy?”

No, you’re having sex & turning her on
Secondly, take it slow

Get rid of the pornography brainwashing

Sex isn’t only about jackhammering her

Girls love the fantasy. Take it slow, you’ve got all day

There’ no point in getting her extremely horny at 11 am when she’s still with her male co-workers right? ;)
Thirdly, learn what kind of language to use

You want to engage her senses in a sexy way

Say stuff like “imagine how good it will feel when we finally make out tonight”

This makes her visualize and feel what you’re saying

Simply saying “I want to fuck you” doesn’t do this
In fact, don’t say stuff like “I want to fuck you” until she’s already very horny

Use words that are associated with emotions and senses.

Go read 50 Shades of Gray if you want to learn how to do this

Take your time, don’t engage all senses at once, you’ve got all day
Fourthly, learn how to use your eyes

Your eyes do actually penetrate her. If you learn how to look properly at her, into her, she’ll melt

Be a tiger looking at something delicious that he wants to devour

Your look should be dominance + passion + desire

Powerful mix
Fifth, touch

Learn how to touch your woman properly.

Women are very sensitive all over

It is not sexy when you only try to touch her tits ass & pussy

Because that shows that:

A) You’re selfish in the wrong kind of way
B) You don’t understand how her body works
From now on, think of your girl’s body as one big erogenous zone,

Because it is

The biggest thing that erotic hypnosis taught me is that girls have very sensitive sexual places all over their bodies

Some gasp when you touch their elbow, some squeel when you touch a knee
Girls are not like you. Your erogenous nerves are centred around your penis

Girls can feel these things much more vividly all over their bodies

You can literally make her orgasm by touching the back of her neck

So learn to touch her everywhere

See what she likes
And again, learn to take your time with this

Don’t be an idiot rushing to stick your penis in there because you think sex only starts then and there

Learn how to appreciate her body and mind

Take your time

And for the love of God

Sex doesn’t end when you orgasm
Sure, if all you do is one night stands or fwb

Yes, sex often ends when you cum and she’s flipping through her phone to see how quickly the uber can get here

In proper relationships though

She’ll want to bond

If you did things properly

She’ll be having that afterglow
When your girl has the afterglow

That means the sex isn’t really done for her yet

Remember sex is something that mostly happens in her mind

If you were to re-engage physically right now

She’d be orgasming in no time again

So let her enjoy this part of sex as well
Let her lie against you and feel safe in the presence of a real man that understands how she works & what she needs

And then after a few minutes feel free to slap her ass & tell her to scoop over because you want to get a glass of water

You don’t have to cuddle all night
Finishing up with some disclaimers:

Yes, of course sometimes you both want to get hot and heavy immediately

Yes, the physical side of sex is also important

No, talking to her and building up sexual tension isn’t beta

Yes, all girls are different, you may know an exception
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