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Mini rant time: so if you are new to the scene and looking for a Dom/me or sub for the first time and are on here getting to know people, welcome. Word of caution: you're seeing a lot of porn gifs with women who are barely old enough to be called that, with perfectly perky bodies
where everything is flat and the lighting is just right. Same w/the men. They have bodies that spend 3+ hours in the gym (not great for a 24/7 dynamic) and w/the amount they are spending on waxing you could buy a lot of toys.
Point is it isn't what 98%+ of the people you meet
Point is it isn't what 98%+ of the people you meet
will look like. And if you want that sort of Dom/me or sub then you need to learn more about BDSM from real sources and not 50 Shades. It isn't all billionaire models.
Enjoy the erotica, but know what reality is. Bodies are squishy, hairy, not cover model looking. And they are
Enjoy the erotica, but know what reality is. Bodies are squishy, hairy, not cover model looking. And they are
just as good at being Dom/mes and subs like that as any other way. If you are talking to someone and you like them but will only want to be with them if they look like a porn star, then please stop talking to them. Do some personal work, then try again.
