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SOME PRACTICES & NORMS THAT ENABLE THE MENACE OF PATERNITY FRAUD IN NIGERIA :
1. Lack of patience to date to know / Hijacking women of choice with money into hasty marriage. Common with men that are hastily ready to get married. They believe money is all there is to...
1. Lack of patience to date to know / Hijacking women of choice with money into hasty marriage. Common with men that are hastily ready to get married. They believe money is all there is to...
..being a husband. They are too busy with the bags & when it’s time to settle, they hijack someone’s lover with
, whereas the lady still sees her lover low-key.
2. Using marriage as poverty alleviation plan: This style is like the sister to no. 1 (hijacking women of choice..
, whereas the lady still sees her lover low-key. 2. Using marriage as poverty alleviation plan: This style is like the sister to no. 1 (hijacking women of choice..
..with money).
It’s popular among older men that use money to discombobulate gullible young ladies from their original choice & buy off their family’s loyalty.
Lowkey, some of these ladies continue to keep seeing & sleeping with their boyfriend of choice secretly on the side.
It’s popular among older men that use money to discombobulate gullible young ladies from their original choice & buy off their family’s loyalty.
Lowkey, some of these ladies continue to keep seeing & sleeping with their boyfriend of choice secretly on the side.
3. Send Forth Sex: This very rotten practice is a norm in this part of the world. While I was in school, I witnessed two “bride to be” that traveled down to school just to engage in send-forth sex with their school boyfriend before Marriage - Boys gossip a lot, we always hear.
4. Infidelity payback / revenge cheating: This is a form of cheating that happens as a reaction and punishment from a totally scorned woman. If ever the sexual atrocities result into pregnancy, she wouldn’t mind imposing another man’s pregnancy on her husband out of bitterness.
5. Seeking of Sexual Solace: This is the situation many sexually & emotionally abandoned women have found themselves. Many got themselves a secret loverboy to service them intimately for them to feel loved. Attimes, escapades result into pregnancy & they don’t think much before..
...dumping one of the results on their husband.
6. Desperation for an heir: Many women would rather go to the end of the world to get a male son for their husband.
As funny as this sounds, I have heard of women that slept with a man just for his record for male children.
6. Desperation for an heir: Many women would rather go to the end of the world to get a male son for their husband.
As funny as this sounds, I have heard of women that slept with a man just for his record for male children.
7. Toxic believe that infertility is strictly a woman’s fault: There are marriages whereby a man is extremely too egoistical to seek medical solution with the wife. There are marriages where the husband’s family have already unsettled the wife with threats and ultimatum for her..
..to conceive. Thereby, Imposing the absolute delay blame on the woman. These women eventually find crooked ways to test run with other men sexually while hoping & searching for a different result.
8. Deep rooted corruption in many of our Health establishments: its no longer news that swapping of babies have been the sad normal in some of our hospitals. Whereby some corrupt health practitioners swap preferred gender from one mother to another for another gender.
9. Trapping approach: This is another rampant abnormal practice whereby a lady with many sexual partners uses pregnancy from one of them to trap the biggest moneybag of them all into marriage. The child from this act most likely ends up as the first born for another man.
10. Long distance Marriage: Happens when the husband lives abroad & the wives lives in the country.
You do be surprised that there are couples that only see just once in two years or even more; Have listened to many with such distressing situation in the past...
You do be surprised that there are couples that only see just once in two years or even more; Have listened to many with such distressing situation in the past...
...Awkwardly, the heartless ones always find a way to meet their sexual needs in the absence of their husband.
And some always find a way to impose the pregnancy outcome on their husband, so far the time line is favourable to their scheme.
And some always find a way to impose the pregnancy outcome on their husband, so far the time line is favourable to their scheme.
