I get everyone grieves differently. I understand people have different beliefs. But what I can’t comprehend is women who miscarry, grieve over their loss, call the child a baby, then state how they are pro choice & then shut down anyone who is pro life.

How do you go from calling your child a baby & then hate on pro lifers for stating the exact same thing? How do you get mad over people stating facts? Or acknowledge the loss of your child then think pro lifers are trash for acknowledging that loss & the humanity of the unborn?

There is so much cognitive dissonance, misinformation, & hatred, even throughout the loss of a child. The unborn & abortion has become such a political debate that even throughout a miscarriage, someone can hate on a group of people who actually acknowledge that loss?

To bring up the rare instances of abortions like rape or life of mother, to say pro lifers who use their miscarriages to force women to have children...all political rhetoric used to further push agendas & divide people. Pro life women who miscarry often will talk about how

Their loss affected them, why it made them pro life or more pro life, or educate on the humanity of their child. We can talk about how it is wrong to intentionally kill your unborn child while relating it to miscarriage in some ways such as above. But saying you can’t kill

Your child isn’t forcing you to have children. You already have a child once pregnant. But then for someone to get mad at that fact? After they had a miscarriage and call their loss a baby? I. Don’t. Get. It.