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Dear Young Women...
I broke my virginity when i was 17 and 11 months old because of peer pressure they lied and said virginity gets more painful when u reach 18years, i gave in on the 14th of February before i turned 18.. Never new what i was getting myself into, i was young #rt
I broke my virginity when i was 17 and 11 months old because of peer pressure they lied and said virginity gets more painful when u reach 18years, i gave in on the 14th of February before i turned 18.. Never new what i was getting myself into, i was young #rt
They lied made me believe all the stories they drew around sex,I started to believe it was a right thing,i enjoyed it as time goes by.& i was like why did i wait all these years but honestly i wish i waited all my life and never gave in..Being young we learn from experiences yes
I met my first boyfriend who was very close to me,my virgin breaker then i moved to another City,we couldn't bare long distances i met my 2nd boyfriend who also moved to another City & i had to meet the 3rd person who changed my whole life to be the person that i am today HIV +
Honestly i sat all my cousin down taught them about my experiences & i told my lil Sis who's 23years today that u can keep ur virginity till u die if u have too, peer pressure won't get u anywhere.I would never stop anyone who have engaged their selves to sexual intercourses but.
Be responsible, careful and don't trust anyone with your life, i was young and naive, i wanted love in exchange of sex, i believed that's the only way to prove that a person u love them or loves you,.. I don't blame the guy for not being upfront i could have acted differently too
I remember my 2nd boyfriend calling me asking Zee how did all that happened i know you, how protective you were what happened, i just bust in tears.. Because he real3 did knew me when it comes to protection but one relationship made me so weak,and i had to face consequences..
The journey with accepting my status was not easy,i was the weakest person until being strong & claiming my life back was the only option,To every young person out there wait,wait & be proud of ur virginity and never let anything or anyone force you to do things u don't wanna do
I'm today still standing after many years of picking up the pieces...i don't regret anything but just proud to teach young people not to repeat same mistakes many of us fallen for... Rather be that boring person who's not out there, the old fashion and the most stubborn one....
Ubumnandi abupheli, i wish i had to teach the younger me these lessons..focus on your dreams, build your life to be person you wanna be, be eager to learn more and strive for the best and to better your life...Amaboyfriend azohlezi ekhona,iichommie will always be there.. "Wait"
Normalise using condoms guys,buy them, collect them from ur clinics many young people when they being taught about these things they assume bayamonelwa kanti many people out there have the i dont wanna die alone mindset they on a mission to ruin lives never eye diagnose a person
To every strong woman out there fighting battles they don't talk about... I'm proud of you continue being Amaqhawekazi there's someone looking up to you
A red Rose to every women out there as we celebrate #WomensMonth
A red Rose to every women out there as we celebrate #WomensMonth
