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Growing up, I never lived in the "mummy & daddy" setting household due to polygamy & as young as I was , I always craved for it and wished to someday get married to an amazing man so my kids can have a home filled with love & a mom and dad
As I grew , I read about marraige and watched lots of movies on marraige and the idea of love made me look forward more. Anyone who knows me knows how much I love LOVE..
In conversations and learning, I heard that when ever you cheat in a marraige, you have brought the devil in because the devil is the 3rd party and it might be hard to get rid of it.
As much as I looked forward to getting married , I always say "may my actions or inactions not allow me bring the devil into my marriage..Because where do I even want to start from.
So whenever I hear of infidelity, cheating in any marraige, it breaks my heart because I believe
Lying, dishonesty must have been a habit.
How do you go home everyday to the love of your life knowing you are not doing right by your vows?!
Lying, dishonesty must have been a habit.
How do you go home everyday to the love of your life knowing you are not doing right by your vows?!
Plus; you have used your hand to bring in the Devil ;
1 : How wil you get rid of the devil
2; What if the devils gets obsessed and things go really bad
3 : After the devil leaves, what will be the future of the marraige.
4 : anyform of heart break in marraige can lead to death.
1 : How wil you get rid of the devil
2; What if the devils gets obsessed and things go really bad
3 : After the devil leaves, what will be the future of the marraige.
4 : anyform of heart break in marraige can lead to death.
So really, why would you intentionally destroy your marraige with your actions when you can intentionally work on the beautiful relationships everyday and make it work...
You don't marry based on love and justify cheating with "we fell out of love"
Was it the day you feel out of love you started seeing another?
If you realize you are falling out of love and you stil want your partner , how about you make it work and do all it takes?
Was it the day you feel out of love you started seeing another?
If you realize you are falling out of love and you stil want your partner , how about you make it work and do all it takes?
... So many people are in marraiges that include abuse, infidelity, lies and all.the ills you can think of and it makes me wonder, was this the promise you both made to each other when you fell in love!
To make each other miserable and to share HIV!
To make each other miserable and to share HIV!
So many things I hear, see baffles me.. We are most likely to spend all of our lives in marriage b4 we die ; so imagining hating eveyday of it.. Because one partner chooses to do not do right or both partners.
If you hate your partner or start to lose interest, do you know that there are so many options that can be explored and cheating isn't one of them!
Who even told you that marriage and cheating are a thing!
Or you think its one of the ups and downs?!
Who even told you that marriage and cheating are a thing!
Or you think its one of the ups and downs?!
Ups & downs are; infertility, miscarriage, loss of properties, home, accident that leads to oke party using a wheelchair, having a child with disabilities , PostPartum depression.. There are so many! In all.this, you have to stick and choose your partner cos you made them vows
Then again, you are seen as weak for loving a perosn for the rest of your life.. some even say "its like eating white rice forever "
We all Hve been drinking water since we were born and we are not tired of it..
The point is, your partner is all u have and you should treat them
We all Hve been drinking water since we were born and we are not tired of it..
The point is, your partner is all u have and you should treat them
..with love, kindness, respect and make them feel like they are the only thing in the world that matters!
Your partner should never fight to be seen , loved or heard.
You partner should be your eveything always.
Choose them always. Its just you two!
Your partner should never fight to be seen , loved or heard.
You partner should be your eveything always.
Choose them always. Its just you two!
We water our plants so the grow.
We wash our cars and take them to the mechanic.
We take care of our favorite shoes or bags even books & these are material things .
But how do you treat your partner?
How do you stay in love?
What are you putting in the relationship?
We wash our cars and take them to the mechanic.
We take care of our favorite shoes or bags even books & these are material things .
But how do you treat your partner?
How do you stay in love?
What are you putting in the relationship?
I know that we are all adults and we know the difference between right and wrong.
You know what will hurt or make your partner happy.
You also know what to do to have a happily ever after .
So please do them cos you have infront of you THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE.
So DO IT.
You know what will hurt or make your partner happy.
You also know what to do to have a happily ever after .
So please do them cos you have infront of you THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE.
So DO IT.
If we all.did the right things, there would be so many happily ever after...So many blissful home.
But in the name.of a successful marraige , must we have to forgive like 3 cheating and 2 slaps!
How hard is it really! Or do we just stop putting in the work!
But in the name.of a successful marraige , must we have to forgive like 3 cheating and 2 slaps!
How hard is it really! Or do we just stop putting in the work!
All I am saying is, LOVE IS BEAUTIFUL and can be more beautiful with our actions or how we treat it.
May we all experience love in its truest and purest form.
May your love truly last in good health and wealth..
May we all experience love in its truest and purest form.
May your love truly last in good health and wealth..
