Men who think "bitches ain't shit, you can't trust these hoes, she ain't yours it's just your turn" are bitterly consumed with the negative aspects of femininity.

Men who think "women are so simply just wonderful" are straight up simps ignorant to the evils women are capable of. https://twitter.com/full_circl/status/1291764549557731333
The men in the former group either got hurt really bad, or have mummy issues (mother has some kind of empathy disorder and was very cruel to him growing up)

The men in the latter group have either never been hurt due to luck or inexperience, or are in absolute denial.
The problem here lies in a lack of acceptance

Men who think women are trash cannot accept that given the correct conditions, women can be a pleasure and an asset to one's life.

Men who think women can do no evil, cannot accept women can be twisted, ruthless and venomous.
Each category of man is incomplete in his views on women, for whilst he may be right about many things, he has failed to reconcile the light and the dark in women.

He sees only one the aspect that strikes him most, and he fixates on this to the exclusion of the other.
He cannot accept the paradoxes inherent to women, that a woman who is cold, cruel and bitchy to one man, can in the same day be warm, loving and submissive to another.

He thinks a woman is either one or the other, he does not realise the very same woman can manifest either.
And he does not see how his behaviour and method of governance in conjunction with her upbringing directly affects her temperament, and what aspects of femininity she manifests.

He does not know how to captivate a woman, so he idolises them as perfect, or rejects them as trash.
Do women generally cooperate with ruthless men who treat them like trash?

Yes. But being a tyrant shouldn't be something you aspire to in order to ensure her loyalty.

Just as you need reconcile the good with the bad, you must likewise dangle the carrot with the stick.
"Why shouldn't I be a tyrant if it works on women IM?"

Simple.

Women are good at cooperating and pretending to love you, whilst secretly resenting your control over them and planning to one day overthrow you.

Secondly, if you have a family, the children will be fucked up.
Machiavelli said it's better to be feared than loved if you cannot be both.

But the goal with a woman is to be both.

A healthy respect (fear) AND appreciation (love) should always be maintained.

One without the other is insufficient and simply will not do long-term.
A woman who does not have a healthy degree of fear for your capacity to discipline will circumvent your authority, act wilfully, and be a general liability and pest for simply not knowing her place.

A woman who does not appreciate becomes entitled and treats you like a slave.
Many of today's women were raised by single mothers or weak men.

They know nothing. They lack feminine grace, and tend to be very shallow and arrogant.

Society shapes women. They are the products of their environment.

You will have to get one young, and train her yourself.
And if you cannot be bothered to train a woman yourself, one who has certain innate attributes that make her "worth the effort" in your opinion, then you will have to shop in more conservative cultures from patriarchs who have already put the work in, and win their approval.
Women become obsessed with the man who captivates them, the one who makes them cry their saddest and happiest tears and who dominates them sexually. This is what it is to own her both physically and emotionally.

Combine these, and you have a near inseparable bond.
My rather simple advice is this:

Don't get caught up on venerating women as angelic creatures that can do no wrong, but neither focus too obsessively on their capacity for evil that you fail to see the good they are capable of.

Accept they are childish, and guide them.
Women, like children, can be unruly little brats, or endearing bundles of joy.

It's up to you to make them act right. They're not independent. They can't behave how you want them to behave without you overseeing them. That's not how it works. This is what you need to accept.
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