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I frequently get questions around people being newere to abolition and expressing frustration that friends and family argue with them about it. I got a message today about someone who was sad that they didnt make all of their points in an argument, and wondered if I felt
that way. I wanted to share what I said, but also say a little more. I do frequently feel that way but with time, and also just practice you're able to parse through people who actually want to engage, and people who will never agree with you.
Spend time educating people who you feel want to learn if you feel up to it, but also know that there are some people who are never going to change their views and thats not always a reflection of you and the work you put in.
Arguing with people is good and fine, but also use that energy into doing the work, and also know that you're on the right side. That doesnt change because you lose an argument or two, or can't quickly think of your points.
If I spent time thinking about all of the people in the world that disagree with me, or actively hate who I am or what i'm doing I wouldnt be able to do anything. Focus on the people and things you can change, and then these heated debates wont feel like theyre indicative of your
passion or knowledge on a subject.
