My dear sisters who are seeking for marriage wallahi islam has honoured you so earn about your rights through Islam and learn to ask important questions when seeking questions like ‘do you know what my rights are?’

Here’s ’The 12 Rights of The Muslim Wife’ (thread)

(1) To spend upon her, to feed/clothe and shelter her. Not to be stingy in this and to not be excessive.

(2) To be kind her!!

(3) Not to harm her!

(4) To be loving to you, example:

(A) Loving to her with your tongue. Nice words, tell her you love her. Tell her how good she looks.

(B) If she asks you to her something and you can’t get it, say I’ll get it In’sha’Allah

(C) That the man beautifies himself with that...

Which is reasonable, (not intimidating women).

(D) From being loving to your wife is that you help her with housework. This is from the example of the Prophet (sallallahu alayhi wa-sallam)

(E) That he is to be playful with his wife.

(F) Sharing food with her

(G) To cuddle with her

(H)Sleep under the same cover

(I)They would bathe together

On the authority of Aisha (radi Allahu anhu) who said: “ I used to bathe with the Prophet from a single container of water which was placed between us such that our hands collided inside it...

He used to race me such that I would say: “ Leave some for me, leave some for me!” She added: we were in a state of Janaabah (i.e. the state of having slept together).” [Al Bukhaari & Muslim]

5) The husband must not curse or swear at wife, or insult her appearance.

(6) A man must not boycott her and if he does (for a valid reason) he should do it inside of the home

(7) A man should not expose the secrets of his wife

(8) A man should not hate his wife. Exalt the good and minimise her shortcomings

A man should not be angry at her faults and should look at her good. To look only good in her

(9) That he should make things easy upon her e.g The chores and what he requires from her

(10) He should have the best manners with his wife. His wife should see the best of his manners. It is said that some men have the best manners out in the market, but when he goes home he is ferocious lion! kind to strange women in the markets but not to his wife in the home...

The best of you are the best of you to your wives. There is no room good in you if you want to help your friends but not your wife, there is no good in your if you are kind to your friends and not to your wife. Combine the two, and that is good.

(11) The husband should be a reason for his wife to be saved from the hellfire. He should teach her and order her to forbid the evil and enjoy the good. Forbidding her from that which will lead to her hellfire

“O you who believe! Ward off yourselves and your families against..

..a Fire (Hell) whose fuel is men and stones, over which are (appointed) angels stern (and) severe, who disobey not, (from executing) the Commands they receive from Allah, but do that which they are commanded.”

(12) The husband should have some type of jealousy for his wife. Jealousy of protecting her from evil, not for her to be exposed to strange men, not for her to speak to strange men etc but not the abusive jealousy and the haram jealousy

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