Shaming men as "gay" for caring about their guy friends and wanting to spend time with them outside of women was one of the worst psyops ever inflicted on the western man

It was a dissipation of the masculine; the weakness of men today can be directly linked to it

I enjoy hanging out with women, but the experience is different when you mix sexes.

Honest conversation is suppressed, discussion of ideas and grand plans muted.

You are not allowed to be real or vulnerable, or you incur social risks doing so.

I can talk politics with almost any man across the isle from me without issue - when it is only with other men. I can't when their wives or girlfriends are there, as the conversation devolves rapidly.

This tells you all you need to know about modern politics.

I do not believe in segregation of the sexes - this leads to a lack of awareness.

But nevertheless both need their own spaces. Constant mixing is unhealthy.

Do not be manipulated by bitchy women and weak men into spending all your time in mixed groups.

I tell my guy friends directly: I want to see YOU. Happy to do a dinner with couples, but we need to put time on the calendar for a hike or drinks together so we can really catch up and connect.

I do not trust men who have their woman at their hip & reduce contact accordingly.

Find men you can trust and form deep friendships with.

Find male spaces to nurture them.

The @21Convention is a critical nexus for this, which is why I support it, and will be speaking there again on October 1st

Tix: http://team.21university.com/138553/6171/url_11039

If you want to hear more of my thoughts on male spaces, and the consequences of their disappearance, I wrote this a little over a year ago https://patstedman.com/2019/05/10/no-male-friends/