While I agree with the overall point here (men need better information), I disagree that romance needs to be sold to (cishet) men. Men have always needed romance fiction more than it needs them, and more marketing won't fix that. https://twitter.com/cindygallop/status/1288643288271118338
Marketing romance fiction to men implies that men need a seat at the table, and that just isn't so. The genre is an opportunity for men to sit and read/listen and learn. Gathering men to discuss romance fiction is a great way for men to counter our emotional programming. But-
It's okay for us to be tourists in the genre, not residents. Cishet men have been reading and, yes, writing romance fiction for decades. And I think it's on those of us who do to evangelize for it to other men- I don't think publishers need to ham-handedly sell it TO us.
It's been tried- cishet male POV romances, NASCAR romances, etc. To encourage publishing to push out authors writing really interesting stories in favor of those with "men's appeal" can only end in disaster.