yes but fidelity is about making a commitment before you fully understand what it entails. because events and people are always unpredictably changing, faith in any context means you take up the obligation accepting that your understanding of it will grow over time https://twitter.com/norton_tj/status/1288671928186744833

we're straying close to mysticism here, but this faith is quite like matrimonial faith, which is why it's described with marital metaphors. the proposal comes and you either rush to meet him, knowing that the full fact of your decision will be revealed over time, or you don't

gregory of nyssa has this beautiful passage where he says something like -- people are mutable by nature and god is infinite by nature, therefore since we're always changing and there is always more to know of him, heaven is this kaleidoscope of new, beautiful experiences

the idea here is that union with god isn't static/boring/monotonous, but rather ever-stimulating, always making and remaking us. so fidelity there means accepting the revelation of countless mysteries over time. i've long thought there's something to that