When w a partner, it is very liberating for both parties to not make phones a big ass deal

Leaving your phone freely around them. With no uncomfortably feelings, doubt guilt, or awkward ptsd. No heaviness or desire to snoop around. Just free and homely trust. It’s convenient too, like sharing 2 phones you can pick up and use whenever

We live in times where people have trained themselves to always place their phone face down, look away as soon as the other person gets a text, fight over passcodes, break phones, it’s too much for one’s mental health, and it’s too common

On the other hand, a balanced connection can bring forth a fun sharing of such a device with no heaviness and pain attached

“But what about Privacy”? if you are face to face with my ovaries on a nightly basis, you are my privacy