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When I got divorced my church kicked me out, everyone from it stopped talking to me(they were my only friends). My sister stopped talking to me, won’t come to any family events if I’m there, won’t let me see my nieces and nephews. Yes, all of this because of a divorce.
If you’re religious, PLEASE do not let it destroy your family or the ones you love. I promise you it won’t be worth it.
When I went to talk to my pastor I told him I would never have sex with my husband again (it was so extremely painful) and he said that is no excuse for a divorce. I wouldn’t wish a sexless life on my worst enemy dude. Come on.
My pastor saw my ex screaming the worst things to me when I went to pick up the last of my stuff, and guess what? It was MY fault that he was screaming because “I shut down and don’t talk”.
I had vaginismus which happens a lot to religious women. Sex with my ex was excruciatingly painful because I wasn’t attracted to him and didn’t like him tbh. Sex has been INCREDIBLE ever since I left. Just sayin. People would try and tell me it hurt bc of a yeast infection 
I don’t say any of this for pity, but for people who have gone through this to feel left alone. For people who have done this to their loved ones to know how much it destroys someone. The community can be so toxic and it needs to end.
My dad jokes that I’ve lived more life in 29 years then most people will in their whole life. This is the tip of the ice burg. There is a lot of shit you guys don’t know 
