What to tell yourself when you get approach anxiety, or when you feel discouraged about it or second-guess yourself:
She’s a girl. Not that much different from you; in fact, she’s much smaller than you, especially at your height and weight. She’s a scared, little girl....
She’s a girl. Not that much different from you; in fact, she’s much smaller than you, especially at your height and weight. She’s a scared, little girl....
...in a grown woman’s body, trying to make it through the day. Only real difference is she has boobs. And so what? She is not that special, and neither are her boobs. How many guys do you think she has shown them to already?
How many guys have seen them? They’re not a big deal..
How many guys have seen them? They’re not a big deal..
...to her; so stop making it (and her) a big deal to you.
She’s not the prize—you are. You’re stronger, bigger, more physical, and probably more intelligent than her.
Don’t be fooled by her professed virtue—she wants to get laid just as much as you do, and probably moreso...
She’s not the prize—you are. You’re stronger, bigger, more physical, and probably more intelligent than her.
Don’t be fooled by her professed virtue—she wants to get laid just as much as you do, and probably moreso...
...she just hides it better. She wants you to talk to her; even if she is not interested, she will feel some validation from it.
But this is not about her, it’s about you. And if she’s not into you or she’s married or taken or whatever she tells you? Move along and next her...
But this is not about her, it’s about you. And if she’s not into you or she’s married or taken or whatever she tells you? Move along and next her...
Because there is a woman out there who will gladly talk to you, exchange phone numbers with you, go out for a coffee, a drink, a dinner with you, and sleep with you (remember, she wants sex and physicality at least as much as you do...
....and her body wants to be owned by a good, strong man).
There is a woman out there for you, Bo—and you will find her. Just go up and talk to her. That’s all it takes.
There is a woman out there for you, Bo—and you will find her. Just go up and talk to her. That’s all it takes.