A personal thread.... So I wanna write this because I see/read a lot of people who are sturggling with hard times and are stuck in a bad place. Let me share my personal hard times and hopefully share some light on helping to see some light at the end.
So in 2014 my beautiful wife passed away a few weeks after delivering our daughter. She passed away from unforeseen pregnancy complications. She was very young. This left me obviously broken and we also have 2 other kids (I was a young dad). I was depressed
and in a panic with everything. How can I work/support/find time to deal with everything. How can I rebound and get back to being who I was before? I could never be fully whole again. It was terrible. I had to put on a strong face for the kids and I also
didn’t want people to constantly call/text/talk in person about how sorry they were. I didn’t want to hear honestly. This feeling of being alone/empty had to change. I always was involved in coaching the kids and I started to really focus on getting more
Involved in the school and other community activities. I was trying to adapt and change my mindset to fill a void in a positive way and get back involved with life. Your mindset is key to everything. Life and your hard times can and will get better but you have to be willing to
Accept that you and only you can jumpstart this happinesss. I lost my wife of 8 years with 3 kids under 6 at the time. Broken. Lost. You can adapt and get back on the right track. It’s hard but I’m proof of this. DM me if you feel broken or lost. For real.
Time is short here my friends. Imbhere for ya.