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I don't ever wanna hear that I'm too angry.
I don't want to ever hear that I say too much.
I don't ever want to be told "stop speaking out and creating more drama."
What I say and do is not "too much" of anything. In fact, it's probably still not enough!
I don't want to ever hear that I say too much.
I don't ever want to be told "stop speaking out and creating more drama."
What I say and do is not "too much" of anything. In fact, it's probably still not enough!
I'm trying to raise hell and make waves so that people will change shit. I'm not here to accept people's bullshit just because they're "in power" or "at the top" or "a leader in the community." If you're behaving badly, I'm going to set an example by doing the OPPOSITE of you.
There is a difference between what I'm doing and what others are doing by starting shit to be a dramatic asshole, acting as a petty bully, and poking holes in the sanity of others by gaslighting, etc.I'm not here to accept people's bullshit just because they're "in power" or
"at the top" or "a leader in the community." That kind of bullshit thinking is how we wound up with a mess in the White House. We shouldn't accept it from big government, and we sure as fuck shouldn't accept it from smaller communities either.
It's madness to think that a minority of people can wield power by ruling with fear, intimidation, bullying, pettiness, mockery, and carrying on all manner of ill will. The people who gain traction and footing like that lash out because they know they're standing on weak ground.
If you want to be a pillar of any community, you do it by being real, honest, and open to change. You gain meaningful followings and support of any kind simply by being genuine, up front, and vulnerable. You have to view things with empathy, remembering to check your privilege.
No community or organizations are without their share of discourse or drama, because they're all run by people and it's human nature to develop these tensions. The problem with it lies in the situations where people use that tension and natural course and manipulate it to thrive.
When people begin to thrive and exist on negativity and predatory behaviors, they start forming habits and become sort of addicted to this "easy" way of life. When challenged, they're going to double down hard in defense of their toxic patterns. They'll do everything to keep it.
They'll further try to gaslight, manipulate, and continue to intimidate. It's a natural response. It's uncomfortable to realize that one has to change, that what you're doing is wrong. It's easier to continue in familiar discomfort than meet change head on, but we must push them.
We must be relentless and continue to fight. We must protest. We must stand up. We must speak out. We must keep going even when it's fucking uncomfortable, scary, or might leave us exposed. When we are brave, step forward and call for change? Others will listen! Others will help.
Sometimes we'll be the only one fighting while others stand in the wings or on the sidelines. Eventually, though, you will find that people observing will see the truth. People will begin to stand besides you and join on the front lines, and then it'll really start to take off.
Things are easier when people stand together. The voice and passion of many are stronger than the voice of ONE or FEW in power, even if it doesn't feel like it! We must not give up when things seem tough or impossible. There is always a way to topple over the bad status quo.
To anyone who needs a friend, mother, sister, companion, I'm here to tell you that I will happily provide you that level of support as BEST that I can! Please, let me know if there is anything I can do for anyone in this community to help you feel supported. I want to help!
Obviously like I can't literally be your mother LMFAOOO but I'm just saying that within my own boundaries I'm happy to fill the emptiness and give y'all support when I can. Or even just to help y'all remember to mother yourselves when you need it!! 
Be kind. Be gentle. Be nice. Respect others. Care for others. Care for yourself. Don't be hard on yourselves ALL the time! Find joy and laughter, but not at the expense of people around you. Remember to laugh at yourself, but don't be too disparaging. Love yourselves and others.
