i’m seeing people say things like “brendon’s a grown man, he should just cut zack out of his life, he should know better, etc.” this just ... seems wrong. listen, this goes for a lot of things, not just this situation. some of you do not understand HOW difficult it can be to —

— just cut people out of your life. when you’ve known them for years, grown up with them, practically lived with them, trusted them, loved them, it doesn’t matter to you how ‘simple’ it seems, it’s SUPER hard. i don’t care what anyone says, it is really fucking difficult. —

— i was going to relate this personally to try giving an example, i’m not sure if i will. i’m busy at the moment and can’t get to the rest of this rn, but i will finish this whole ‘statement’ whatever the fuck it is later.