Thread: Adjust your filter to this setting

To unlock avalanches of good fortune 👇🏼
The more you give
The more you receive
The more you receive
The more you can give

When I say adjust your filter here is what I mean...

This totally changed my life

Things went from a constant uphill climb & chasing

To downhill skiing & attracting
Imagine a rush of muddy water with gold nuggets & diamonds in it đź’Ž

Too tight of a filter and nothing comes out the other end

No filter and you won’t capture or find any of the gems
When your filter is too tight you express less

Typically this is wanting 100% certainty before expressing

Wanting to know a business will work before expressing

To know if they will like you

To know if that content will do well before posting it
When I lowered my filter down to 40% good starting flowing

Expressing at 40% certainty instead of 100%

If you only talk to people you’re 100% certain about you never leave your bubble

Meeting new people you never know until you say something
Saying something when you meet people you’re interested in

It could go well or it could go nowhere

But there’s then at least a chance of something

Even if you two aren’t going anywhere maybe someone they know and introduce you to is a great person to have in your life
With my twitter I don’t think every tweet is perfect or even that good

Funny enough it’s often the tweet I think is not good that ends up blowing up
The more you give the more you can receive

If you’re not expressing. You’re not giving any value/vibe

The channels of receiving are opened by giving & expressing

If I say just one extra sentence to people I meet vs shying away a channel is then open for them to express back
If I give value on social media a channel is then open for people to give back

Following, buying something, business connection, friendship, etc

🔑 But there’s even a bigger key to this whole thing...
The more you do something the better you get at it

This is the circle of life

Expression > Experimentation > Integration > Transcendence

You express
Get feedback
Integrate the lesson
Now your next expression is better

And the cycle repeats
Each cycle you transcend to a new paradigm of competence & skill

The lesson you integrated will need a few reps of conscious effort

But then it becomes unconscious competence

This is when your baseline default expressions become optimal and get results
But that point can never be reached without putting yourself out there and expressing

Whether that be trying a new skill
Meeting people
Dating
Making content
Starting a business

Any form of outward expression is the prerequisite to open the channels of receiving
Your key asset in all this is CALIBRATION đź§­

If a tweet/video is way off you can always take it down

If you say something to someone that is off you can always calibrate and adjust

School taught us we can’t calibrate there is only pass or fail
But the circle of life is not pass or fail

It’s all one big experiment in which you calibrate, learn, grow

The more you give the more you can receive

More expressions purely through probability means more chances of receiving

and better developed expressions
The first step appears scary because of the narrative we assign to it

Write down the Risk/Reward like a trader

-What happens if this goes well
-What happens if those goes horribly wrong

You’ll be amazed how much less you worry when the worst case scenario is no longer unknown
Take the first step

Have faith in your awareness and ability to calibrate

Understand the reward far outweighs the risk and the risk is often just feelings

Remember

Feedback determines strategy not self worth

Thank you for reading,
Cheers 🥂
- Yous
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