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Do not settle for less than you pray for.
Have people do research on the man cos they come looking good and acting all "Astaghfirullah" and they can do it for a long time but they are something else.
Bring your mind to accept what the research has revealed
Do not settle for less than you pray for.
Have people do research on the man cos they come looking good and acting all "Astaghfirullah" and they can do it for a long time but they are something else.
Bring your mind to accept what the research has revealed
Your heart won't accept that's why I said your mind.
Remember, what is yours will always come to you and what isn't will never belong to you.
Ask him questions, deep questions about the mental stability of his family. If you hear cases of physical/verbal abuse or neglect
Remember, what is yours will always come to you and what isn't will never belong to you.
Ask him questions, deep questions about the mental stability of his family. If you hear cases of physical/verbal abuse or neglect
..it is best you leave. True he may not be same as the family but really, how far can the apple roll away from the tree?
If he talks too much about how great he is... Keep walking away! Remember, if a king has to keep saying he's the king then he is not.
If he talks too much about how great he is... Keep walking away! Remember, if a king has to keep saying he's the king then he is not.
If you find out he's been married and divorced even once and he blames it entirely on the woman... Motherfuckerugonnadothesametoyou! He never accepts blame for anything and it will make your life a living hell.
No matter how much the mistake is yours, once there's another adult
No matter how much the mistake is yours, once there's another adult
...that adult has a share in the blame. He is going to resort to blame instead of finding solutions... When you bring a solution, he's going to create a flaw in it. Negative energy you do NOT need
If everything seems okay nd u do get married bcos Qadar Allah w ma sha'a fa'al then please, if u can, do not have kids in the first year. People relax when they get married, show who they really are.
In fact, agree on it, have it in writing bcos "I do not remember such agreement"
In fact, agree on it, have it in writing bcos "I do not remember such agreement"
Just keep it in writing with witnesses ALL OF YOUR PRE-MARITAL PLANS AND AGREEMENTS sign it, have major witnesses sign it as well. 4 elders who won't shut you down with "no need for this"
THERE IS NEED... OLUWA HAS SAID SO TOO!!!
THERE IS NEED... OLUWA HAS SAID SO TOO!!!
Anyways, there are genuine good men out there so don't settle. Have the biggest of Faith in Allah concerning this getting married issue. People will tell you your time is going. Remind them Sarah and Ibrahim (AS) had Ishaaq past the age of 90.
Apparently the only reason a woman should marry is biological clock 
What if Allah has not written kids for either of you?
Do not succumb. Do not feel bad. Do not feel old. Do not feel neglected. Do not feel it is too late. Do not make them make you question Allah. Time is His!
What if Allah has not written kids for either of you?
Do not succumb. Do not feel bad. Do not feel old. Do not feel neglected. Do not feel it is too late. Do not make them make you question Allah. Time is His!
I forgot this, pardon me
There's something else, the close friends of the man usually leave you subtle hints. Yes men do "Bro Code" but they also try to help, the ones who have some fear of Allah.
Pay attention for those hints.
There's something else, the close friends of the man usually leave you subtle hints. Yes men do "Bro Code" but they also try to help, the ones who have some fear of Allah.
Pay attention for those hints.
