I love a shower cry! I'm crying, the shower's crying, it's all very synergistic. all the shit sluicing out of your face just gets washed away. and the steam, warm water & smallness of the chamber is so soothing. I'd take a shower cry over a soft textile cry any day https://twitter.com/RustBeltRebel/status/1286503987433345026
that said if it has to be a soft textile cry, I think there's nothing better than crying into a bath towel. tissues and toilet paper get shrivelled and sad, but a single towel can absorb all the sadness in the world. for a time I always had a crying towel by the bed
the only tissue I'll make an exception for is kleenex 'cool touch' tissues. they should be the official sponsor of grief. changed my crying game completely